Tag: 1980s

  • Gen X Watch Recap And New Adventures!

    Gen X Watch Recap And New Adventures!

    The June Recap In June the theme was, of course, PRIDE month. As the editor in chief I had concerns on how we were going to approach this month. Striking the balance of making sure our queer readers are recognized properly without performative allyship that is so much the corporate norm today. We wanted to…

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  • Jodie Foster is the Freaky Fem Friday a Fan Wanted!

    Jodie Foster is the Freaky Fem Friday a Fan Wanted!

    Was there an actor who was part of my childhood? Did she make movies with important statements? When outed without consent did she take back the narrative of her life? Is she mentor to many? And are there lessons we can learn from a mistake? If we are talking about 2 time Oscar Winner Jodie…

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  • Gen X Music Was The Best Music For Gen X

    Gen X Music Was The Best Music For Gen X

    Was the music of our generation the best? Does today’s music just not connect as well? Kind of. There’s a lot to unpack. When I was a teenager I got to constantly hear Boomers and the Silent Generation tell me that my music was simply noise. Unless that Boomer was Tipper Gore or a Minister,…

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  • Make Your Mark: Contribute to the Next Fem Friday!

    Make Your Mark: Contribute to the Next Fem Friday!

    One of the most beautiful things about Fem Fridays is the comments you share. Sometimes they are on the article, other times they are in various social media outlets. The fact that so many of you connect with the stories about these amazing women we write about means the world. The point of Fem Friday…

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  • Unveiling the Queer Coding in Miami Vice: A Perspective

    Unveiling the Queer Coding in Miami Vice: A Perspective

    Did the 80’s TV show Miami Vice change television as we know it? Was Miami Vice pushing the envelope on many topics? Is there an episode (arguably one of the best according to fans) that is not available on streaming? Did this banned episode have queer coding laced through the episode? Is it possible that…

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  • Tiffany and the Little Things That Mattered in Malls

    Tiffany and the Little Things That Mattered in Malls

    In August of 1987 I was visiting some friends in Sun Prairie, Wisconsin. It is a small town on the East Side of Madison. Everyone I knew was busy one day so I went to the East Towne Mall. I got there early and the mall was not crowded…yet. But it was about to be…

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  • Powerful Work Gen X Men Can Do In #Metoo

    Powerful Work Gen X Men Can Do In #Metoo

    Is #metoo necessary? Is there work men should do in response? It the work hard? Yes. And if you do the work it is going to be uncomfortable, but it needs to be done. The work is not for poser wannabe men who are not as punk as Billy Idol. It will take real men…

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  • Freddie Mercury’s Love in Contrast With Christian Hate

    Freddie Mercury’s Love in Contrast With Christian Hate

    Freddie Mercury and Queen helped me see the contrast of the ugly side of the church and the beauty of art. My queer child and I saw the movie “Bohemian Rhapsody” together on New Year’s Eve of 2018. The theater was packed. One of the movie’s key moments was the 1985 Wembley Stadium performance of…

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  • Why Fem Friday: Powerful Women’s Stories and Struggles

    Why Fem Friday: Powerful Women’s Stories and Struggles

    Why does a guy tell Fem Friday stories? Do the stories matter? And what can we do together? Why Fem Fridays Started After my second Fem Friday, a progressive minister told me that a woman should be writing these stories. I told him that I’m a feminist and intentional representation matters. He then told me…

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  • David Bowie Showed Us How to Be Heroes

    David Bowie Showed Us How to Be Heroes

    To make David Bowie to be a saint or a sinner is to not understand that life exists in the nuance of neither. There are important messages in his art, but also his life. In many ways, Bowie has served as an example of acceptance, intersection, and living life on your terms. As a parent,…

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